Argue Their Point

This technique is extremely helpful in enabling you to see another person's perspective.

Try arguing from their perspective.
Defend their perspective.
Wrap your mind around their perspective.

It's funny, but when you feel a connection to another person's perspective, you find yourself feeling that maybe there is more to life than defending one's own little hill.

Are They Sharing Freely, Openly, Generously? If Not...Move Along

Life is short.

Seek out people who are teachers, who share their knowledge openly and generously.

Having to pull teeth to get knowledge out of someone is exhausting and rarely worthwhile.

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I know I'm the kind of person who shares everything I know.

I will only seek out people with the same philosophy to learn from.

And what is work supposed to be?

Have You Ever Been Told , "Don't Just Wait Around For 'Things To Feel Right' Before Doing Them. Just Do It."?

well...they are wrong (for the most part).

"Feelings Are The Fuel For Actions."

If something doesn't 'feel right' you will not be able to drum up much energy to do it, and it will likely not be a satisfying experience.

The real issue here though is one of truly 'knowing yourself'.

If something does not 'feel right' yet you still feel some desire to do it , perhaps the question is one of how thoroughly you know what it is you actually want.

Then the quest is to search inside yourself and come to know yourself more thoroughly.

I recommend using a "Comfortable Chair" and sinking deep into one's awareness.

When You Force Yourself To Do Something...

The Life-Direction Question Of The Day

Getting past fear and doubt is difficult...

Moving past your mentally imposed limits is challenging.

There is so much to be aware of, so many things which can be addressed in a life that it is difficult to know where to begin.

Well, take it one day at a time.

When a particular question about the direction your life is taking crosses your mind, and it resonates with you as being truly important, make it your life-direction question of the day.

This question is the one you will be considering principally for the entirety of the day.
Perhaps making it the center of your mental efforts will yield good results.

Always Know, That Doing Things Which Are Difficult But Feel Important To You...

Always Know, That Doing Things Which Are Difficult But Feel Important To You Is Never A Waste, Never The Wrong Thing To Do.

Even If You Don't See The Value In It Now,
Even If You Can't See Ever Seeing Value In It,
Always Know That Someday, You Will See Its Value.

It Is Never Wrong To Follow One's Heart.
Even If You Don't See The Value In It,
Even If You Think You Will Never See Value In It,
Without Fail, Someday, You Will See The Value In Doing What Feels Right For You.

Don't Be Afraid To Make A Great Effort, For After The Great Effort Comes A Time Of Rest

"After Every Great Effort Should Come A Time Of Rest."

• Following A Time Of Great Effort Should Come A Time Of Rest And Reflection
• After Making A Great Effort A Hero (or Anyone) Is Entitled To A Time Of Rest And Reflection
• This is the way of life. Time For Action and Time For Rest

So, Don't Be Afraid To Make Great Efforts.
After The Great Effort Comes A Time Of Peace And Healing, When You Reflect On Your Great Effort And Grow Stronger From Having Made It.