"Tell People About Your Dreams And Goals And Wishes And Hopes,
Even If They Sound Far-Fetched.
Why?
Because It's Important To Tell People About What You Want Your Life To Mean." - David Julio Wang
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Parable of the Log
If your life is not progressing, you have to tell people.
A log has blocked the flow of your life, the flow of your chakra.
An emotional log.
If time has passed, and you have not moved forward,
you have already been trying to move the log on your own.
The log has not moved and you feel the effects of being stuck.
If the log is very stuck, you will need help to pry it loose.
Perhaps it has become wrenched in between rocks, or
tangled in vines.
Perhaps you will need to seek other people with special knowledge to help you free the log.
Once you have freed the log, your life, your chakra, can flow once more.
A log has blocked the flow of your life, the flow of your chakra.
An emotional log.
If time has passed, and you have not moved forward,
you have already been trying to move the log on your own.
The log has not moved and you feel the effects of being stuck.
If the log is very stuck, you will need help to pry it loose.
Perhaps it has become wrenched in between rocks, or
tangled in vines.
Perhaps you will need to seek other people with special knowledge to help you free the log.
Once you have freed the log, your life, your chakra, can flow once more.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
To Accomplish Your Goals, Try On Your Own, If It Doesn't Work
"To Accomplish Your Goals, Try On Your Own, If It Doesn't Work
Get Help
Try On Your Own Again
Get More Help
Keep Trying On Your Own
Get Still More Help
Repeat Over And Over Until You Have Fulfilled Your Dreams." - David Julio Wang
Somewhere along the line of striving on your own, and getting help you will realize your dreams.
Get Help
Try On Your Own Again
Get More Help
Keep Trying On Your Own
Get Still More Help
Repeat Over And Over Until You Have Fulfilled Your Dreams." - David Julio Wang
Somewhere along the line of striving on your own, and getting help you will realize your dreams.
Personality Tests - Who Am I? Finding Answers By Answering Life Questions
- True Colors
- Myers-Briggs
- Keirsey's Temperament Sorter
What Do You Do? What Would You Do?
Know Yourself,
by mentally exploring your likely reactions to different scenarios.
Who Is This Person?
Have people in your life take the Personality Tests too,
and better understand who they are by seeing their reaction to different hypothetical situations.
Parable of The Building
Problems are like a building.
Alone you can only see so much of the building, with the solution to your problem lying in the back,
where you can't see it.
You will find it, if you spend enough time walking around the building, but you lose so many years,
when someone could have pointed out the solution because they were examining your problem too.
That said, sometimes the Journey of traveling around the building will you teach you things you would not have experienced otherwise.
The kicker, the crux, the tell, the truth,
is how you feel.
If you are not content where you are, and you want more,
seek help to find the answers you need.
Alone you can only see so much of the building, with the solution to your problem lying in the back,
where you can't see it.
You will find it, if you spend enough time walking around the building, but you lose so many years,
when someone could have pointed out the solution because they were examining your problem too.
That said, sometimes the Journey of traveling around the building will you teach you things you would not have experienced otherwise.
The kicker, the crux, the tell, the truth,
is how you feel.
If you are not content where you are, and you want more,
seek help to find the answers you need.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Do Not Betray Yourself
"Do Not Betray Yourself.
Honesty.
Make Sure That The Actions Your Perform Are In Accord
With Your Truest Self,
That They Are A Reflection Of Your Genuine Wishes.
If You Betray Yourself,
You Compromise And Weaken Yourself.
Being So Weakened Diminishes And Darkens Your Whole Life.
You Don't Have Yourself.
You Kick Out The Legs Upon Which You Were Standing." - David Julio WAng
When you do things that don't feel right to you,
you are betraying yourself.
A voice inside of you is protesting,
and ignoring it will only make it louder.
You can bury it and bury it and bury it,
but,
like a pebble in your shoe,
it will always be hobbling you,
preventing you from truly striding forth in life.
Don't betray yourself.
Honesty.
Make Sure That The Actions Your Perform Are In Accord
With Your Truest Self,
That They Are A Reflection Of Your Genuine Wishes.
If You Betray Yourself,
You Compromise And Weaken Yourself.
Being So Weakened Diminishes And Darkens Your Whole Life.
You Don't Have Yourself.
You Kick Out The Legs Upon Which You Were Standing." - David Julio WAng
When you do things that don't feel right to you,
you are betraying yourself.
A voice inside of you is protesting,
and ignoring it will only make it louder.
You can bury it and bury it and bury it,
but,
like a pebble in your shoe,
it will always be hobbling you,
preventing you from truly striding forth in life.
Don't betray yourself.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Need Help? Ask For Help. Still Need Help? Ask For More Help.
"Need Help? Ask For Help.
Still Need Help? Ask For More Help.
Still Need Help? Ask For Still More Help.
Still Need Help? Ask For More Help Still.
Still Need Help? Keep On Asking Until The Day You Can Finally Say,
'I'm Good. I Don't Need Help Anymore. Now, I'm Ready To Help.'" - David Julio Wang
How long do you want to let life pass you by?
How long do you want to let your dreams go undeveloped?
If you can't make your beautiful visions a reality on your own,
get help doing so.
If you get help, but it's not enough, get more help.
Keep on getting help until you feel good.
Limiter : "Don't be needy."
"You're just using people."
"You'll never stand on your own feet."
We're here on this Earth to help each other.
Human beings are naturally noble creatures.
When a person feels in a place that they can genuinely help, they will, without question.
That is the truth of human nature.
Still Need Help? Ask For More Help.
Still Need Help? Ask For Still More Help.
Still Need Help? Ask For More Help Still.
Still Need Help? Keep On Asking Until The Day You Can Finally Say,
'I'm Good. I Don't Need Help Anymore. Now, I'm Ready To Help.'" - David Julio Wang
How long do you want to let life pass you by?
How long do you want to let your dreams go undeveloped?
If you can't make your beautiful visions a reality on your own,
get help doing so.
If you get help, but it's not enough, get more help.
Keep on getting help until you feel good.
Limiter : "Don't be needy."
"You're just using people."
"You'll never stand on your own feet."
We're here on this Earth to help each other.
Human beings are naturally noble creatures.
When a person feels in a place that they can genuinely help, they will, without question.
That is the truth of human nature.
How Much Life Are You Willing To Let Pass You By Before You Ask For Help? - Words From A Wise Psychologist
Me : I just feel I need to do things on my own, to make it on my own, to make my dreams come true with my own two hands.
Psychologist : Alright.
But.
How long do you want to try to do things on your own?
A month?
A year?
10 years?
You may struggle on your own for a long time,
and find that you feel the time was lost and wasted.
Me : ...
Psychologist : I don't want to see you wind up 30, 40, 50 years old and full of regrets.
Try to do things on your own,
but,
if you are not reaching your goals,
don't lose too much time struggling without success.
Don't let your dreams and youth slip away without you feeling fulfilled.
Tell others your dreams.
Seek all the help you can to make them come true.
Me : Why am I worthy of having my dreams come true?
Psychologist : Simple, because I deserve to have my dreams come true,
my Secretary deserves to have her dreams come true,
my Son deserves to have his dreams come true,
my 5th grade teacher deserves to have his dreams come true,
everyone deserves to have their dreams come true,
including you.
It is a human right.
Just as every human being has the right to freedom, respect, clean drinking water, good food, a meaningful job, and so on.
Me : Many people don't have these things.
Psychologist : Right, that just means it's vital to keep working towards this goal,
all of us,
and that means helping each other realize each other's dreams.
Me : ...
Psychologist : Again, you have your dreams, your goals, how long do you want to wait for them to come true? How long do you want to try to make them come true all on your own?
Don't wait too long.
You can feel life passing by.
It's simple.
If you've tried to do it on your own, and you can't,
then it's time to seek out help,
otherwise, time will pass by, and you will not have achieved your goals and dreams,
or even feel that you had made progress towards achieving them,
and the frustration will build inside of you,
and sour the entirety of your life.
Psychologist : Ask yourself,
"How much life am I willing to let pass me by before I ask for help living it to its fullest?"
Psychologist : Alright.
But.
How long do you want to try to do things on your own?
A month?
A year?
10 years?
You may struggle on your own for a long time,
and find that you feel the time was lost and wasted.
Me : ...
Psychologist : I don't want to see you wind up 30, 40, 50 years old and full of regrets.
Try to do things on your own,
but,
if you are not reaching your goals,
don't lose too much time struggling without success.
Don't let your dreams and youth slip away without you feeling fulfilled.
Tell others your dreams.
Seek all the help you can to make them come true.
Me : Why am I worthy of having my dreams come true?
Psychologist : Simple, because I deserve to have my dreams come true,
my Secretary deserves to have her dreams come true,
my Son deserves to have his dreams come true,
my 5th grade teacher deserves to have his dreams come true,
everyone deserves to have their dreams come true,
including you.
It is a human right.
Just as every human being has the right to freedom, respect, clean drinking water, good food, a meaningful job, and so on.
Me : Many people don't have these things.
Psychologist : Right, that just means it's vital to keep working towards this goal,
all of us,
and that means helping each other realize each other's dreams.
Me : ...
Psychologist : Again, you have your dreams, your goals, how long do you want to wait for them to come true? How long do you want to try to make them come true all on your own?
Don't wait too long.
You can feel life passing by.
It's simple.
If you've tried to do it on your own, and you can't,
then it's time to seek out help,
otherwise, time will pass by, and you will not have achieved your goals and dreams,
or even feel that you had made progress towards achieving them,
and the frustration will build inside of you,
and sour the entirety of your life.
Psychologist : Ask yourself,
"How much life am I willing to let pass me by before I ask for help living it to its fullest?"
Friday, June 12, 2009
If You Don't Know What To Do : Feel
"If You Don't Know What To Do : Feel.
If Your Feelings Are Spent : Think.
If Your Thoughts Are Muddled : Sleep.
If You Can't Sleep : Do.
And If You Are Paralyzed,
Unable To Act In Any Way :Wait.
Something Will Happen.
The Nature Of The Universe Will Assure That.
Do Everything Fully,
And Eventually You Will Find Something To Keep You Moving Forward." - David Julio Wang
Throughout the majority of my life,
I thought I had to think my way out of my problems.
Just keep them inside and ruminate them until a solution of some sort became apparent.
I know that doing so caused me to leave my feelings behind,
and feelings are integral to who I am,
leaving them behind left me living with only part of who I am,
and I felt disjointed and out of sorts.
Now, I know that my feelings are essential to a feeling of completeness in my life.
But, when I'm emotionally spent,
I can think.
When I can't think anymore, I can sleep.
And if I'm absolutely spent in every way,
I can wait.
Something will happen.
It always does.
Such is the nature of existence.
If Your Feelings Are Spent : Think.
If Your Thoughts Are Muddled : Sleep.
If You Can't Sleep : Do.
And If You Are Paralyzed,
Unable To Act In Any Way :Wait.
Something Will Happen.
The Nature Of The Universe Will Assure That.
Do Everything Fully,
And Eventually You Will Find Something To Keep You Moving Forward." - David Julio Wang
Throughout the majority of my life,
I thought I had to think my way out of my problems.
Just keep them inside and ruminate them until a solution of some sort became apparent.
I know that doing so caused me to leave my feelings behind,
and feelings are integral to who I am,
leaving them behind left me living with only part of who I am,
and I felt disjointed and out of sorts.
Now, I know that my feelings are essential to a feeling of completeness in my life.
But, when I'm emotionally spent,
I can think.
When I can't think anymore, I can sleep.
And if I'm absolutely spent in every way,
I can wait.
Something will happen.
It always does.
Such is the nature of existence.
When You Feel Stuck And Unable To Move On
"When You Feel Stuck And Unable To Move On,
Feel And Feel Deeply.
(Try Not To Ignore Or Distract Yourself From Your Feelings)
Allow Your Feelings To Build Up Inside Of You,
Until They Become A Powerful Enough Force To Free You.
Then You Can Move On." - David Julio Wang
When you're stuck,
a push or a pull is required to unstick you.
A stuck wagon.
A stuck truck.
A struck person.
A stuck ball.
Anything stuck requires an exertion of energy to dislodge it.
Looking at it from a purely Physics point of view,
an input of Energy is required when something is stuck in
a motionless state.
To get a stationary object to move,
requires the application of Force or Energy.
The heavier the object,
the more resistance inherent in the object,
the greater the force of Energy required to cause the object to move.
Feel And Feel Deeply.
(Try Not To Ignore Or Distract Yourself From Your Feelings)
Allow Your Feelings To Build Up Inside Of You,
Until They Become A Powerful Enough Force To Free You.
Then You Can Move On." - David Julio Wang
When you're stuck,
a push or a pull is required to unstick you.
A stuck wagon.
A stuck truck.
A struck person.
A stuck ball.
Anything stuck requires an exertion of energy to dislodge it.
Looking at it from a purely Physics point of view,
an input of Energy is required when something is stuck in
a motionless state.
To get a stationary object to move,
requires the application of Force or Energy.
The heavier the object,
the more resistance inherent in the object,
the greater the force of Energy required to cause the object to move.
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